A Bottom's Guide to Being Safer

A bottom’s guide to being safer

• Be aware that anal sex is the riskiest form of sex when it comes to HIV.
• You can also contract other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) as well as hepatitis through anal sex. (A hepatitis vaccine is available from your doctor.)
• The bottom partner is at a higher risk of becoming infected with HIV than the top partner.
• The best way to avoid HIV infection (and other STIs) is to use condoms and water-based lubrication (oil-based lube destroys condoms). Don't let your partner pressure you otherwise - you’re the one most at risk.
• Try to get your hands on a “female condom” (at a chemist or organisations like OUT). They are great for anal sex and are inserted into the anus before sex, giving YOU the power.
• If you insist on not using condoms (known as barebacking) it is safer to use oil based lube - and use a lot of it (to avoid small tears of the anus).
• If you bareback, don't use an enema; this may also cause tearing during sex and increase your risk of HIV infection.
• If you bareback, don’t let your partner be too rough and make sure he pulls out before coming – it can reduce your risk a little.
• Don't allow your partner to force himself into you. If it's hurting it could lead to tearing and increase your risk of HIV infection.
• Get tested for HIV regularly to know your status. If you are infected, early treatment will keep you healthier and reduce your chances of infecting others.
• If you’ve had unsafe sex or are worried you might have been exposed to HIV through your partner, you can go on medication to reduce your risk of HIV infection, known as PEP (Post Exposure Prophylaxis). You should get on PEP within 72 hours of having unsafe sex for it to be effective.

Source: http://men2men.co.za/mobile-home/37-the-happy-bottom-tips-for-hotter-and-safer-anal-sex